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"Much of the stress of labor is preventable
because many of the stressors are not inherent to
labor."
~Penny Simkin |
These
quotes, as well as the others throughout my website,
illustrate my philosophy towards pregnancy, birth and
life with a new baby.
"Birth
is not about pleasing your caregiver (or doula),
following institutional rules, fitting into a
medical culture, mastering a new medical language, or
being a patient. Birth is about listening to your
body, connecting with your baby and birthing a
family."
~
Sarah Hilbert-West
"We
value technology for all that it enables us to do and
for the sense of safety and control over nature that it
provides. Thus is easiest for us to believe that
“managing” birth with technology is far safer than
allowing birth to flow. But just as damming rivers
profoundly alters natural ecosystems, intervening in
birth profoundly alters this natural process and can
cause problems that require more technology to fix them
. . . . ."
~
Robbie Davis-Floyd, Ph.D.
"Women
are allowed or not to have their babies at home. In
hospital, they are allowed or not to move, scream or
sing, stand, walk, sit or squat. Women are allowed or
not to have their babies after birth...To allow is to
exercise as much, if not more power, than to
forbid"
~
Ronald
Laing
Pregnancy
& Birth
I
believe that pregnancy and birth are natural events for
which a woman's body and mind are perfectly equipped.
In the vast majority of cases, healthy women grow and
birth their babies best when there is no interference in
the process.
Unfortunately, there are many "voices" in our
society that tell women and their partners that
pregnancy and childbirth are fraught with dangers and
sudden disasters despite evidence to the contrary. This
mindset leads many women to experience stress, fear and
ultimately to have long, difficult labours.
When a woman listens to her body (including clues that
something is not well), trusts in its' competence,
seeks out information and surrounds herself with
caregivers who believe in the birth process she can
experience a vibrant pregnancy and an uncomplicated,
stress-free birth. In the rare event that complications
arise, she also has the confidence to meet the challenge
without panic.
A
trained birth doula can help mom and her partner find
the information they need to make informed choices and
support them during labour and birth.
Postpartum
The
first days and weeks at home with a new baby are a
whirlwind of emotions and adjustments for everybody from
mom and dad, to siblings, grandparents, even pets.
As
your baby's parents, you are uniquely in tune with his
or her needs and love them more than anybody else. But
learning your baby's cues, recuperating from birth and
generally not getting enough sleep can create stress and
a feeling of being overwhelmed.
The
practical, compassionate help of an experienced mom and
trained postpartum doula can help you and your family
settle into a new routine and develop confidence in
caring for your precious new arrival.
Trinity Doula Care
Pregnancy, Birth and Postpartum Support
Carla Murphy
416-797-0875
647-343-4830

cdenisemurphy@yahoo.ca
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